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Is it purifying “Love” or curing “Lust”?
Is it “Love Making” or “Making Love”?
Or is it just relieving & pairing captive Sperms and Eggs
or pure fornication?
With or without God’s clear precepts, it seems that this is the widespread male pattern of understanding of what should be considered adultery and that the women are the culprits throughout history until our present days: (the word) “Wife is the name of dignity, not bliss” (Verus, v: V)… and: “We keep mistresses for our pleasures, concubines for constant attendance, and wives to bear us legitimate children and to be our faithful housekeepers. Yet, because of the wrong done to the husband only, the Athenian lawgiver Solon allowed any man to kill an adulterer whom he had taken in the act” (Oration against Neaera – (Plutarch). (Bolding & underlining is the author’s)
“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body that is holy and honorable, not in a passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God… For God has not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness” (1The 4:3-7)… “But every man (and woman) is tempted, when he/she is drawn away of his/her own lust, and enticed” (Jam 1:14)… “How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts. These are they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit.” (Jud 1:18-19).
The heartbreak started right in Paradise during the period known as the “Age of Innocence”, where Eve practically lusted after the fruit of the forbidden tree even before being beguiled by the Serpent, and concocted a scheme if caught to say that the “Devil made me do it”, then enlisted her Adam as accomplice, cementing the concept, “it takes two to tango”, hence their experience and ours conform to the popular saying, “every forbidden is greatly desired (lusted after)”. It all started with a glance followed by a look then the strong desire to have, touch and enjoy:
“And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food (body and soul) and that it was pleasant to the eyes (lust), and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.” (Gen 3:6)… “Was then that which is good made death unto me? God forbid. But sin, that it might appear sin, working death in me by that which is good; that sin by the commandment might become exceedingly sinful.” (Rom 7:13).
The common denominator between “love making” and “making love” is the act of performing sexual exploits, be it with oneself through touching, masturbation and/or using imitation artificial artillery and contraptions; and with opposite or same sex through tens of improvised role-plays, foreplays, flirting, manipulations, stimulations of sensually sensitive hot spots besides the many acrobatic positions borrowed from the kuma sutra’s volumes, or finally with animals as well as imaginable and unimaginable concocted aliens and objects.
Is the slogan “love making/having sex” geared towards having freelance sex episodes in or out of wedlock just for the purpose of releasing oneself, satisfying sexual urges, or braggingly having someone under the sheets. Is the term “making love”, beside the intimacy and pleasures associated with it, the factory to produce babies?
First and foremost, let us distinguish between adultery and rape (unlawful forced sexual penetration whether coitus or sodomy, be it with adults or youngsters) by confirming that adultery is voluntary while rape is involuntary. With incest, adults do it voluntary, but with defenseless children and teens, it is involuntary on their part. The Latin-Greco etymology of the word “adultery” Latin: “Adulter”, Greek “Moich” implies “corruption” of godly and natural statutory laws, committed by “adults”, while the Arabic noun “zinã” and verb “zana” probably stem from the root “zi~na” (adornment) as “Beauty or Grace”, as in criminally violating the sanctity of the beauty of God masterpiece creature. Latin, Greek and Arabic infer “Adulthood” denoting predetermination and knowledge of what one is doing or planning to do.First | 1 | 2 | 3 | ... | Next → | Last